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  • Manayunk landmark restaurant Jake’s will close this fall after nearly 40 years

    Manayunk landmark restaurant Jake’s will close this fall after nearly 40 years

    Restaurateur Bruce Cooper is big on dates. He opened Jake’s in Manayunk on Oct. 19, 1987 — Black Monday, the day the stock market crashed.

    He’ll close it on Oct. 19, 2026, the start of its 40th year on Main Street.

    In between was another financial crisis, an expansion that reflected changing tastes, a devastating flood, a pandemic — and nearly four decades in which Jake’s evolved along with Manayunk itself.

    Cooper, 72, is selling the side-by-side Main Street properties that house what is now Jake’s & Cooper’s Wine Bar. Before the final night, he plans to turn the wind-down into a reunion. Past employees will get a 50% discount on Sundays and Mondays, and the restaurant will extend its September restaurant week (Sept. 14-20) pricing through the final day. On Oct. 19, a party will empty the bar and kitchen, with proceeds going to a local charity.

    “I just wanted to get to [the start of] 40 years,” said Cooper. “I wanted to get out two years ago.”

    Bruce Cooper with his son, Bruce Joseph Cooper II, inside the wine bar at Jake’s & Cooper’s Wine Bar.Allie Ippolito / For The Inquirer

    When Cooper arrived in Manayunk, Main Street hardly looked like the retail and restaurant district it would become.

    Cooper, a Culinary Institute of America graduate from Upstate New York, had spent a decade as executive chef at Lankenau Hospital before deciding that he wanted a restaurant of his own. He took business courses at Community College of Philadelphia and St. Joseph’s University and spent years looking at properties before a real estate agent showed him a former print shop in Manayunk in early 1987.

    Cooper didn’t commission traffic studies. While walking along Main Street, he noticed Jaguars and other expensive cars rolling up to a posh restaurant called Jamey’s, which had opened a year and a half before. Otherwise, as he remembers it, “there were practically tumbleweeds floating down the street. You could find parking on a Saturday.”

    That spring, Cooper bought 4365 Main St. and assembled a group of investors to open Jake’s, his then-wife Helena’s nickname.

    Jake’s was conspicuously ambitious: white tablecloths, contemporary artwork, an extensive wine list, and Cooper’s refined cooking, including pastas from scratch. Dishes included crab cakes with raspberry butter, scallops with red pepper and papaya sauces, and duck breast with tangerine sauce.

    The restaurant’s whimsical facade depicted an oversize table setting, with food spilling from a plate and wine pouring into a glass, surrounded by flowers, flatware, linen, and crystal — designed to suggest both fine dining and a sense of fun.

    The exterior of Jake’s & Cooper’s Wine Bar in Manayunk on Monday, Aug. 10, 2026. The bar is closing after 39 years.Allie Ippolito / For The Inquirer

    Many early customers came from the Main Line, crossing the Schuylkill over the Green Lane Bridge into the former mill town.

    Business grew quickly. When Cooper had put together his business plan, his accountant told him his projected sales were impossible for a 65-seat restaurant. Jake’s reached the projection in its second year, Cooper said.

    By the 1990s, Main Street was crowded with boutiques and similarly high-aiming restaurants like Sonoma and Kansas City Prime.

    In a 1998 review, Inquirer restaurant critic Craig LaBan described a room of cushioned banquettes, contemporary design, and a stylish but unstuffy clientele. He called out the veal dumplings with caramelized ginger, seared tuna with sticky rice, foie gras with grilled mango, and the barbecued salmon — a signature.

    Craig LaBan’s first review of Jake’s, from July 1998.Newspapers.com

    And then there were the mashed potatoes. One version paired Yukon gold potatoes with buttermilk and roasted corn. Another, served beneath medallions of veal, was infused with lobster and cream. Patrons, LaBan reported, had taken to calling the latter “sex on a plate.”

    LaBan awarded Jake’s three out of four Liberty Bells, the rating system he used at the time. “That’s when it really started to take off,” Cooper said.

    Manayunk’s overall success brought its own problems. Friction between residents and the expanding restaurant and bar scene in the late 1990s led then-City Councilmember Michael Nutter to push for a five-year moratorium on new restaurants in the district.

    Julia Child with Bruce Cooper at an event in 1996.Courtesy of Bruce Cooper

    Cooper, who later served as president of the Manayunk Development Corp., believes that the moratorium lasted too long and helped push Main Street toward nightlife. He later helped develop agreements among restaurateurs, landlords, the business association, and neighborhood groups that placed operating restrictions on new restaurants.

    Meanwhile, the style of dining that had made Jake’s successful was changing. White tablecloths were giving way to small-plate menus.

    Which leads to another consequential date: March 14, 2008, on the eve of another financial crisis, when Cooper bought the former clothing store next door at 4367 Main St. and opened Cooper’s Brick Oven Wine Bar. Cooper’s is a markedly different restaurant, drawing a younger crowd and serving pizza, small plates, craft beer, and less expensive wines.

    The dividing line quickly blurred, Cooper said. Customers at Cooper’s wanted food from Jake’s, and Jake’s customers wanted dishes from Cooper’s. The restaurants shared a kitchen, and Cooper eventually merged their menus and identities as Jake’s & Cooper’s Wine Bar.

    Head bartender Carrie Hice chatting with patrons at Cooper’s Wine Bar in 2023.Elizabeth Robertson / Staff Photographer

    Then came July 17, 2016.

    Cooper got a middle-of-the-night phone call that a city water main had ruptured outside the restaurant, sending water through the building and destroying the kitchen and the apartments above. He gutted and rebuilt, with business-interruption insurance helping carry the restaurant through a six-month closure.

    The experience changed the way Cooper thought about the business.

    “When you stop a business and then restart it, there are people who had been coming every week, and then they stopped,” he said. “They got into another routine. They went elsewhere.”

    Even months after Jake’s reopened, Cooper said, customers would walk in surprised to discover it had reopened. “That’s when I started looking at things differently,” he said.

    Cooper considered selling, but a real estate adviser urged him to wait as residential development accelerated in Manayunk and Roxborough. Three years later came the pandemic. His extended time at home spoiled him, he said.

    Chris Campana (left), with help from Bruce Joseph Cooper II, choosing a wine from the wall in 2023.Elizabeth Robertson / Staff Photographer

    Three years ago, Cooper moved to Delaware. His son, Bruce Joseph Cooper II, 37, now manages the restaurant day to day, while the senior Cooper comes north once or twice a week to handle scheduling, wine orders, and other duties.

    In June, Cooper put the properties, including four upper-level apartments, on the market for an undisclosed asking price. Cooper said he wants a clean break rather than passing the restaurant to his son, though neither rules out working together on another project someday.

    The closing will end one of the longest remaining restaurant runs from the era that transformed Manayunk. Pitchers Pub (1987) and Zesty’s (1993) are still at it; U.S. Hotel Bar & Grill has been open irregularly since Bill Green, the former mayor and congressman, reopened it in 1986.

    For Cooper, that history encompasses more than the people who ate there. “When you look back, you think about the generations of customers — in a lot of cases, we’re talking about three generations,” he said. “But it’s not just the customers. It’s all the people behind the scenes: the banker, the produce person, all those people who helped you get through things.”

    Bruce Joseph Cooper II, then 11, helps chef Bill Murphy carry food from Jake’s basement to be loaded into a truck for a 1999 holiday dinner by Philabundance. Vicki Valerio / Staff Photographer

    Cooper’s son grew up at Jake’s, handing out cookies at holiday meals his father helped organize through North Light Community Center. He joined the restaurant full-time during the pandemic, starting as a food runner and eventually taking over management.

    Purveyors and other restaurateurs have approached Cooper Jr. with potential job offers, he said, and he would consider working with whoever buys the properties. He once imagined taking over Jake’s himself but is no longer certain that is what he wants.

    His father understands.

    The restaurant business, the senior Cooper said, demands long hours and constant attention. One lesson he would give a new restaurateur is the one that helped him survive both the flood and the pandemic: Own the real estate if you can.

    “If I didn’t own this real estate during COVID, I would have owed the landlord,” he said.

    Cooper has begun informally advising other restaurateurs about the economics of getting into, staying in, and getting out of the business. After nearly four decades, he said, he is ready to find out what comes next.

    His son thinks about Jake’s in more personal terms.

    “Even in my almost five years working as a manager here, I’ve seen kids go from being in the womb to toddlers, and they know me as Uncle Bruce,” the younger Cooper said. “That’s one of the greatest feelings in the world — being able to say, ‘I knew you before you were born, little one.’”

    Bruce Joseph Cooper II (left), general manager, and Bruce Cooper (right), owner, inside Jake’s & Cooper’s Wine Bar in Manayunk.Allie Ippolito / For The Inquirer
  • SEPTA drivers fear screaming riders and chaotic commutes as bus overhaul takes effect

    SEPTA drivers fear screaming riders and chaotic commutes as bus overhaul takes effect

    The lines are drawn, the maps are set, and on Sunday SEPTA began reconfiguring bus routes across the Philadelphia region.

    Bus operators say they worry passengers frustrated over changed routes that take them by surprise and unexpected delays will yell at, curse, or assault them. It has been a persistent problem in recent years.

    In some cases, riders accustomed to staying on one bus route will need to transfer to other buses or the subway and elevated trains. That increases the chances of missed connections and delays. And angry people.

    “You’re upset because you had counted on the bus,” said Keya Sampson, 52, a bus driver for 12 years. “You have to be at this appointment or you’ve got to punch in on time.”

    She is sympathetic, even though delays are outside her control.

    “We’re going to end up in a tricky situation because we’re the face of SEPTA,” Sampson said. “They don’t have anybody else to scream at, unfortunately.”

    Vulnerable riders

    Carlos Guillen, who has worked for SEPTA for 19 years as an operator on buses and the Broad Street Line, noted that SEPTA advises Route 4 riders to take the B, SEPTA’s new name for the subway line, to avoid longer wait times.

    “I can see how it can impact elderly and those with disabilities, especially moving down the sidewalk — they’re not the smoothest thoroughfares,” said Guillen, a safety officer for Transport Workers Union Local 234.

    He noted a lack of ADA-accessible stations on the B north of City Hall.

    Longer term, some bus operators are concerned about the possibility they could be replaced in the future by autonomous driving technology.

    “Autonomously driven vehicles have no place in mass transit,” said Joe Coccio, secretary-treasurer of Local 234, which represents more than 5,000 SEPTA employees, including operators on buses, subways, and trolleys. “They’re flawed. They’re unpredictable.” He said they also can be hacked.

    SEPTA says it has no plans to use robot bus operators and is hiring human ones as fast as it can. But a spokesperson also said the authority wants to keep its options open.

    Most operators are anticipating some confused passengers at first, even though SEPTA has sent out teams to educate people about Phase 1 of the New Bus Network. Maps and cards illustrate the changes, translated into multiple languages.

    New color-coded signage is part of SEPTA’s plan to communicate changes to bus routes that begin on Sunday. Tom Gralish / Staff Photographer

    Some people won’t get the message.

    “People right now don’t even read our destination signs to see if it’s the right bus,” said Ryan Stewart, who operates a Route 35 bus from the Midvale depot in Nicetown.

    What’s changing

    SEPTA has pushed for much of the last decade to streamline its bus network amid declining ridership that predated the pandemic. Planners found that slower travel times due in part to traffic delays and long, twisty routes made service less reliable and discouraged people from relying on buses.

    In the first wave of changes, 30 bus routes will be affected.

    Some routes with low ridership or that duplicate nearby service have been eliminated. Others have been extended. Some will run more frequently, others less frequently, based on analysis of demand. Two new routes have been added.

    The people who pilot the buses on Philadelphia’s narrow streets know that some small and overlooked issues could undercut the New Bus Network program’s goal of quicker, more efficient service.

    Sampson, for instance, has been driving the 63 for the summer. She will be back behind the wheel on Route 4, her regular run for the last four years, this week — as the changes begin.

    Route 4 will have fewer buses running. So SEPTA is deploying 60-foot articulated buses, which carry more passengers.

    SEPTA had been using 40-foot buses on the route, which has narrow streets and hairpin turns, especially in its northern reaches, where there is a longstanding detour that will not end until summer 2027. Operators think the longer buses will have trouble navigating the route.

    Operators have asked SEPTA to look at the issue. “If there’s nothing they can do, it’s going to be a nightmare,” Sampson said. “We’re going to get stuck.”

    She knows well the hard turn from Erie onto Rising Sun, an angled intersection with a pub that often has a beer truck parked on the curb. Only one articulated bus at a time can fit down that little stretch of Old York Road. And the church at 10th and Rockland Streets that has packed funerals, with cars parked to the corners.

    “How do you ask someone who’s grieving, ‘Hey, move your car’? … At the same time, we do need to make the turn, and it does need to be safe.”

    Time will tell

    Paul Pollard, a veteran bus operator on Route 61, said he spends precious minutes stuck in traffic on Main Street in Manayunk on his way north to Roxborough during morning peak hours, as parents drop students off at school.

    But the schedule assumes his bus can sail through.

    “I’ve had people get off my bus, walk two or three blocks down, and go into their job,” Pollard, 49, said. “I’m still sitting in traffic.”

    It is “virtually impossible” to meet the schedule safely, he said. The result: late buses and steamed customers.

    Time will tell if worries become reality, but operators know that they will bear the brunt of any outrage.

    “There’s nobody at SEPTA headquarters getting somebody throwing coffee on them, or spitting on them,” Pollard said.

  • Thousands of Philly homeowners are facing property tax increases of 50% or more after this year’s reassessment

    Thousands of Philly homeowners are facing property tax increases of 50% or more after this year’s reassessment

    Most Philadelphia homeowners will see slightly higher property tax bills next year after the city conducted a mass reassessment process that resulted in a modest uptick in home values.

    But for thousands of residents, many of whom live in North Philadelphia, next year’s tax bills are expected to soar.

    Nearly 6,000 homeowners in Philadelphia saw their property assessments this year climb by more than 50% compared with two years ago, the last time the city conducted a mass revaluation, according to an Inquirer analysis of city property assessment data released in June.

    Of those homeowners, more than 2,200 saw their assessments more than double.

    That is likely to result in sticker shock come tax time next year, because property tax bills in the city are calculated based on home values. The revenue is split between the city and the Philadelphia School District.

    Homeowners across the city saw a median 3% increase in their property assessments this year compared with the 2025 tax year. Jumps were higher in neighborhoods that border gentrifying areas, such as in parts of Kensington and West Philadelphia.

    But this year, two other areas of the city had the densest concentrations of homes where property assessments increased by 50% or more, according to The Inquirer’s analysis.

    The steep rises are clustered in the southern end of Strawberry Mansion, the historically Black neighborhood along the Schuylkill, and in the tiny Hartranft neighborhood north of Temple University and east of Broad Street, where residents are predominately Latino.

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    Housing experts and advocates for low-income homeowners have long criticized the city’s assessment system as systemically biased, leaving Black and brown homeowners to pay disproportionately high property taxes. Mayor Cherelle L. Parker convened a task force in 2024 to study the city’s revaluation system, and that group’s recommendations are expected to be released later this year.

    Monty Wilson, a senior attorney at Community Legal Services who sits on the task force, said the Philadelphia Office of Property Assessment is the best in the state and has “worked really hard to become more and more accurate.”

    But he said bias persists in part because of the unique challenges that assessors face in low-income neighborhoods that can cause volatility in home values, such as higher rates of vacant lots, foreclosures, and other factors.

    A 2024 CLS report found that errors were clustered in lower-value neighborhoods where a majority of residents are people of color.

    “That means when a property is overassessed,” Wilson said, ”it tends to occur in a Black and brown neighborhood.”

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    The Parker administration did not respond to requests for comment.

    In response to a previous article about this year’s property reassessments, city officials emphasized that some lower-income homeowners pay relatively low tax bills because of the popular homestead exemption tax break. The program, which any homeowners can apply for and obtain if they live in their house as their primary residence, exempts the first $100,000 from a home’s taxable value.

    That means that some homeowners in working-class neighborhoods previously paid little to no property taxes. A sudden increase in valuation, like the ones seen this year in pockets of North Philadelphia, could require they pay bills next year that are several hundred dollars more than in the past.

    Take the 2500 block of North Marshall Street. The residential North Philly street sits between West Kensington and Broad Street, and nearly every home saw its assessment increase by 60% or more, according to The Inquirer’s analysis.

    Most of the homes there had previously been valued at less than $100,000, meaning owners with the homestead exemption owed no property taxes. Now, many of the homes on the block are valued at about $140,000, an amount that would next year yield more than $500 in yearly tax bills for owners with the homestead exemption.

    More than 40% of the Hartranft neighborhood’s residents are below the federal poverty level, which is $33,000 a year for a family of four, according to U.S. Census data.

    At Left a property on 2500 N. Marshall St., Philadelphia, PA 19133 is shown Wednesday, Aug. 19, 2026, in Philadelphia.Jose F. Moreno / Staff Photographer

    City Councilmember Quetcy Lozada, whose district includes parts of Kensington and North Philadelphia, said the Hartranft area is not like sections of Kensington that have seen an influx of development in recent years and where increases in property assessments may be expected.

    It is possible, she said, that lower-income residents who have been displaced from parts of Kensington looked to move west of the neighborhood, increasing demand in the Fairhill and Hartranft areas.

    Lozada — who has held workshops in the neighborhood to connect residents with property tax relief programs — said she fears her constituents are being asked to pay disproportionately high taxes and not seeing better city services and stronger public schools.

    “How is it possible that someone in Fairhill is paying a higher tax for a property that has not had any investment, in a neighborhood that is not as safe, whose school system is not as great, as somebody that lives in Chestnut Hill, for instance?” she said, referring to the upscale Northwest Philadelphia neighborhood with a $109,000 median household income. “There has to be a better way of doing a more accurate evaluation in every neighborhood.”

    City Council is expected to hold a hearing this fall to probe the assessment process.

    In Strawberry Mansion, community leaders said that increased assessments are likely a result of market pressure from Brewerytown to its south, a comparatively whiter and higher-income neighborhood.

    “The city has to be super transparent about this assessment system so people can better understand it and not feel that sticker stock,” said Tonnetta Graham, president of the Strawberry Mansion Community Development Corp. “If we know how they came to their number, it’s easier to chew.”

    The 1700 block of North Newkirk Street on Thursday, Aug. 20, 2026 in Philadelphia.Monica Herndon / Staff Photographer

    Councilmember Jeffery Young Jr., whose district includes both Strawberry Mansion and parts of Hartranft, did not respond to requests for comment.

    Jalon Alexander, a Strawberry Mansion native who this month launched a campaign to challenge Young for his Council seat next year, said he was recently at a block party in the neighborhood where he heard repeatedly from older homeowners who were concerned about their increased assessments.

    “They feel taken advantage of, and they feel like it’s coming out of nowhere,” Alexander said. “This is an area where there’s high levels of poverty, and there is not a lot of political or government attention in this area. I’ve spoken with many people whose rates have almost doubled. It’s the biggest issue in the neighborhood.”

    Staff writer Michaelle Bond contributed to this article.

  • The Philly Music Fest has announced this year’s surprise headliner

    The Philly Music Fest has announced this year’s surprise headliner

    It’s a Philly Music Fest tradition.

    The nonprofit, “Our Genre Is Philly” festival that celebrates its 10th anniversary in October, has made a habit of holding back the name of a mystery headliner whose identity can’t be announced until the artist is done playing another previously booked show in the Philadelphia market.

    Surprise headliners in recent years that PMF founder Greg Seltzer has brought into the cozy confines of Ardmore Music Hall have included Mt. Joy, Waxahatchee, and, last year, Dr. Dog.

    This year, it’s Gregory Alan Isakov, the singer-songwriter who was born in South Africa and raised in Philadelphia.

    Isakov now lives on a farm he owns outside Boulder, Colo., where he grows organic salad greens and root vegetables — and records roots music songs, like those on his 2023 album Apaloosa Bones, in his home studio.

    The announcement of Isakov’s PMF shows — which will feature openers Cailoa on Oct. 12 and Madi Diaz on Oct. 13 — couldn’t be made until he was done playing with the Philly Pops at the Highmark Mann on Friday night. He also was scheduled to perform with the Philadelphia Orchestra at the Saratoga Performing Arts Center in New York state on Saturday.

    This year’s PMF performers — who will raise money for Philly music education organizations including Rock to the Future, Settlement Music School, Beyond the Bars, and Key of She — include Mo Lowda and the Humble, RJD2, Wax Jaw, Sweet Pill, Owen Stewart, Roberta Faceplant, Sug Daniels, Marietta, the Dillinger Escape Plan, and Immanuel Wilkins.

    Philly band Sweet Pill plays Philly Music Fest in October. Their new album is “Still There’s a Glow.”Juliette Boulay

    The fest includes nine showcases in six clubs over seven nights. Tickets to each event are sold separately, and available now for Isakov and all other shows at phillymusicfest.com.

  • ‘We weren’t building power’: Inside the takeover of an influential Philadelphia labor council

    ‘We weren’t building power’: Inside the takeover of an influential Philadelphia labor council

    James A. Williams Jr. walked his first picket line when he was 8, growing up in the 1980s in Northeast Philadelphia as the son of a labor leader.

    He followed in his father’s footsteps, joining Glaziers Local 252 — the same union of which his great-grandfather was a charter member when it was founded 100 years ago. Also like his father, Williams rose to the top of the 140,000-member International Union of Painters and Allied Trades, becoming general president in 2021.

    Yet, even as Williams, 48, known as Jimmy, has broadened his focus to national issues — including Trump administration policies he sees as anti-labor — his attention diverted back to the city this summer when he ordered a review of his union’s regional governing body in Philadelphia, District Council 21.

    Seeking to evaluate DC 21’s recent merger with its counterpart in North Jersey, Williams says he found declining membership, excessive compensation for certain staff, and a lack of transparency.

    “It was obvious that we weren’t building power,” he said in an interview. “If anything, we were operating outside of our own laws and our own rules.”

    So Williams appointed a trustee to take control of the district council, removing the union’s elected business manager, Bernie Snyder, from his position and suspending other officers. Williams’ trustee on July 24 hand-delivered a letter — a copy of which was obtained by The Inquirer — with this news to DC 21’s union hall on Southampton Road in the Far Northeast, citing “widespread financial malpractice” and other governance issues.

    Williams said his review did not find evidence of theft or fraud: “The case you have here is mismanagement.” Snyder could not be reached for comment.

    Such trusteeships are not unheard of. They have been imposed on more than 20 Philadelphia-based unions since 2000, according to U.S. Labor Department records.

    But DC 21 — which is affiliated with 11 unions in Pennsylvania, New Jersey, and Delaware representing 5,600 painters, glaziers, drywall finishers, wall coverers, and glass workers — is not just any union. It is one of the largest members of the politically influential Philadelphia Building and Construction Trades Council, which is a close ally of elected officials ranging from Mayor Cherelle L. Parker to Gov. Josh Shapiro. In 2023, President Joe Biden and Vice President Kamala Harris each visited a training site affiliated with DC 21.

    President Joe Biden spoke at the Finishing Trades Institute in Northeast Philadelphia in March 2023.Jose F. Moreno / Staff Photographer

    Adding to the intrigue is the international president’s close ties to the district council and the broader Philly labor movement. His father, James Williams, once led Glaziers Local 252, and his uncle Ralph Williams was business manager of the Philadelphia building trades council in the 1980s. Beyond his family ties, Williams has described former DC 21 business manager Joseph Ashdale, a fellow glazier, as his mentor.

    “It had to be serious for him to have done it [taken control of DC 21],” said a local building trades source who spoke on condition of anonymity to speak candidly about a sensitive labor issue. “It’s drawing attention to his home local. It’s personal when it’s your own local.”

    Some in the world of organized labor did not see it coming. “That’s shocking to me,” State Sen. John Kane (D., Delaware), a former business manager of Plumbers Union Local 690, said of Snyder’s ouster.

    Susan Schurman, a professor at Rutgers University’s School of Management and Labor Relations, said oftentimes one faction of a union will level accusations of wrongdoing against a rival group in an effort to gain power.

    But Schurman, who reviewed Williams’ letter at The Inquirer’s request, said she was “inclined to think” that is not the case here. “Assuming what is said in the letter is accurate, when you have a declining membership and you’re raising the compensation and other things for officers and staff, you got a problem,” Schurman said.

    Williams said he was not motivated by politics. “It was difficult because of relationships and, you know, long-standing roots,” he said, adding that he had worked with Snyder, a painter by trade, for 25 years. “But it was also more necessary in order to change the culture for our membership here.”

    ‘I’d be angry’

    That change — to center the organization around members, not staff — is needed not just in Philadelphia but across the union, Williams says. He wants members to become “active participants” in the organization.

    “As a whole, people need to be held accountable and kicked in the a— to push forward, represent the labor movement, and display their potential power,” Gregg Smith, the Hanover, Md.-based union’s general secretary-treasurer, wrote in an internal newsletter this summer.

    Williams has described Joseph Ashdale, former DC 21 business manager, as his mentor.Clem Murray / Staff Photographer

    But as Williams seeks to empower members, some in DC 21 say they are not getting enough information from leadership. “Everybody’s pissed off,” one member told The Inquirer, speaking on condition of anonymity out of fear of retribution.

    Williams has held several meetings with members in recent weeks, including one at the Northeast Philly union hall on Aug. 5. “They basically avoided any questions,” the member said. “Where did all the money go? Nobody will tell ya nothing.”

    When DC 21 posted about the trusteeship on Facebook, one member responded, “How many times does our membership have to be victimized[?]”

    That frustration is understandable, Williams said. “There’s some angry members,” he said. “And think about it, I’d be angry. I’m working my a— off every day, and I expect that those that I elect are capable and are following the rules, right? And it’s just not what happened here.”

    19% decline in membership

    The takeover comes after DC 21 lost 19% of its membership in just two years, falling from 6,977 in 2023 to 5,621 last year, according to U.S. Labor Department data.

    “That’s huge,” the building trades source said. “You don’t see drops like that, that quickly.”

    Painters unions in other big cities did not see a similar drop-off over that two-year period. In New York, membership in District Council 9 held steady around 7,600 people. In Chicago, DC 14’s membership fell by 4% to about 3,900. DC 51 — which represents workers in Washington, D.C., Virginia, and Maryland — saw a 37% increase to 1,600 members.

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    In his July letter to members announcing the takeover, Williams said DC 21’s organizing department “has no discernible targets, strategic plans, or campaigns while membership declines and trade jurisdictions are undefended.”

    In the interview, he also pointed to a slowdown in regional construction. But the problem runs deeper, he said. Going back to 2010, Williams said, the union’s membership in Pennsylvania and New Jersey has declined by 2,000 people.

    Even in a region known as friendly to organized labor, more work is being performed by “open-shop” contractors that hire both union and nonunion labor, he said, adding that workers are increasingly being “misclassified” as independent contractors.

    “Philadelphia, New Jersey are right in the crosshairs for where organized labor needs to organize power and grow,” Williams said.

    Allegations of excessive pay

    Even as DC 21 lost members, it provided compensation packages to officers and certain staff that were inconsistent with the union’s bylaws, the letter said. That included $300,000 for elected staff over a two-year period in excess of what was allowed under the bylaws, according to Williams.

    Labor Department records reviewed by The Inquirer shed additional light on the union’s spending.

    The DC 21 staff’s average gross salary was $116,000 last year, a 14% increase from 2023. DC 21 employees’ average salary for 2025 was the highest of any of the 10 district councils in IUPAT’s Eastern Region, including New York, which paid an average of $109,356.

    DC 21 had been facing challenges even before the recent shake-up.

    Membership had been sliding for years when the union merged in 2022 with District Council 711 in North Jersey. (DC 21 already had a presence in South Jersey.) At the time, DC 21 was led by Ashdale, a former longtime chair of the Philadelphia Parking Authority.

    Ashdale retired in 2023 and was succeeded by Fran McLaughlin. Snyder was elected business manager the following year and served in that role until his ouster by the international union in July.

    The newly appointed trustee is Brian Courtien, a former business manager of District Council 51 in Maryland.

    He has to do two things, said Rutgers’ Schurman: dig into the union’s books and fix anything that was done “inappropriately,” and then try to ease rank-and-file members’ concerns about how their dues are being spent.

    “The trustee has to kind of manage a process of bringing calm and order back to the organization,” she said.

    Once that work is complete, the union will elect new leaders.

    For Williams, effecting change starts with ensuring members understand they have agency in the organization. “Their bylaws are theirs; they’re not their leaders’. Their contracts are theirs. They’re not their employers’ or their leaders’.” he said.

    “Having our rank-and-file at the center of everything we do,” he said, “from political endorsements to contract negotiations to union governance, that’s the culture we’re trying to build within our organization.”

  • ICE inked a $9 million contract with a Montco firearms manufacturer — and is spending $17 million at Philly area businesses

    ICE inked a $9 million contract with a Montco firearms manufacturer — and is spending $17 million at Philly area businesses

    U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement has awarded more than $17 million in contracts, mostly to businesses, in the Philadelphia area since the start of President Donald Trump’s second term, with more than half of that money going to a firearms manufacturer in Montgomery County.

    The local data, compiled by The Appeal, highlights the Trump administration’s spending related to raids and enforcement operations as the agency carries out the president’s mass deportation agenda, including its purchases of weaponry.

    Geissele Automatics, a firearms manufacturer based in North Wales, has the largest and perhaps most consequential contract with ICE in the Philadelphia area.

    The company — which specializes in selling high-grade, AR-15-style semiautomatic weapons and parts to consumers, law enforcement agencies, and the military — entered a contract with ICE for nearly $9.1 million in September 2025, according to federal data.

    The payment was for the delivery of “precision long guns and accessories” to support ICE agents as well as the agency’s tactical programs, the data show. It’s unclear where the equipment is being used.

    Neither the company’s founder, Bill Geissele, nor a representative from the company’s sales team returned a request for comment.

    Nationwide, ICE and U.S. Customs and Border Protection has dramatically increased spending on firearms in Trump’s second term, according to a report earlier this year from U.S. Sen. Adam Schiff (D., Calif.), leading to outcry from Democratic officials and voters who say the agency has become a militarized force with little oversight or accountability.

    That outrage continued this month when Democrats voiced their opposition to ICE’s plan to provide ICE officers with electric shock gloves. Schiff’s oversight report, released earlier this year, called ICE and CBP’s contracts for weaponry a “misuse of taxpayer dollars to maximally arm federal immigration agents.”

    A spokesperson for Department of Homeland Security said in a statement that $17 million in contracts in the Philadelphia region is “simply not accurate” and “conflates nationwide ICE contracts” with spending in the area.

    “ICE contracts with vendors across the country to support its law enforcement mission. The existence of a federal contract, a vendor located in a particular region, or a nationwide contract vehicle does not mean that the full value of that contract was spent in Philadelphia,” the spokesperson said

    “Reporting should accurately distinguish between nationwide contract values, vendor locations, places of performance, and actual federal expenditures before presenting a misleading figure as fact,” they added.

    The details on the contracts come as residents and advocates in the Philadelphia region and nationwide are continuing to remain vigilant of ICE’s presence in their communities. Earlier this year, ICE struck deals to retrofit warehouses in Pennsylvania and New Jersey into mass detention centers before later backtracking after residents and leaders in both states voiced opposition.

    Bill Geissele — who hosts the manufacturer’s podcast Shots Fired in Anger —has donated to Republican elected officials in Pennsylvania, including U.S. Sen. Dave McCormick and U.S. Rep. Dan Meuser. Geissele’s contract, while not the company’s first with the federal government, is by far the most significant contract between the gun manufacturer and the federal agency on record.

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    In August 2024 for example, under former President Joe Biden’s administration, Geissele Automatics entered a $12,224 contract with ICE for equipment to support a “sniper sustainment” course, according to data compiled by The Appeal.

    By 2025, when Trump returned to the White House and significantly ramped up ICE operations nationwide, those contracts ballooned.

    On top of the $9.1 million contract that year, Geissele was paid $27,936 to provide training rifles and magazines for the agency’s Office of Firearms and Tactical Programs, as well as $16,544 for rifles and accessories required for testing and evaluation.

    ICE also took its spending across the river to Burlington County in New Jersey, where it awarded George J. Petronis Enterprises Inc., a gun shop, slightly more than $505,000 since the start of Trump’s second term for training ammunition and ink cartridges for 9mm training ammo to support ICE’s Office of Firearms and Tactical Programs in Fort Benning, Ga.

    George J. Petronis Enterprises Inc. did not return an email requesting comment.

    The Appeal’s dashboard also shows a contract for rental of a firing range between ICE and the county’s fire academy, located in Conshohocken, that has existed since at least 2021. But Montgomery County officials said Friday that the contract is with the broader Department of Homeland Security — which ICE is a part of — and not with the federal immigration enforcement agency directly.

    County Commissioner Jamila Winder, a Democrat, said that the academy is used by local, state, and federal agencies for law enforcement training but “this facility is not available for training for those engaged in immigration enforcement activities.”

    Other contracts highlighted by The Appeal dashboard may also be directly tied to DHS, instead of ICE.

    Earlier this year, Montgomery County’s Board of Commissioners passed a resolution restricting federal immigration enforcement from using county property or resources for noncriminal investigations.

    Other local contracts with ICE include a roughly $50,000 contract with the Philadelphia Parking Authority for rental spaces for 16 vehicles and more than $78,000 to Ricoh USA Inc., an office technology company headquartered in Chester County that was also used under the Biden administration. Coast2Coast Shredding LLC, which is headquartered in Montgomery County but shreds documents in California, received more than $94,000 from ICE.

  • Is Ariel Hukporti ready to become the Sixers’ backup center? A Knicks reporter weighs in.

    Is Ariel Hukporti ready to become the Sixers’ backup center? A Knicks reporter weighs in.

    A wild 76ers offseason has finally settled, after they stunningly signed LeBron James and traded for Jaylen Brown to vault into championship contender status.

    To help Sixers followers get acquainted with the newcomers on this revamped roster, The Inquirer reached out to reporters who covered those players on their previous teams.

    First up is The Athletic’s James Edwards III, who covered reserve center Ariel Hukporti during his first two NBA seasons with the New York Knicks.

    Gina Mizell: Hukporti obviously did not get much playing time during his first two NBA seasons behind Karl-Anthony Towns and Mitchell Robinson. So how would you describe his game, and where did he most develop (or not develop) behind the scenes?

    James Edwards III: Hukporti is your typical “traditional” center. He runs the floor hard. He goes after loose balls. He attempts to be active defensively. I think he’s improved as a screener from Year 1 to Year 2. It’s really nerdy stuff, but a good screener does positively impact offenses.

    He isn’t unskilled, but his skills haven’t revealed themselves on the court. He doesn’t really do anything off the dribble. He isn’t a great finesse finisher right now. And while he doesn’t shoot threes, I’ve watched him shoot threes behind the scenes and the shot doesn’t look bad. I could see him trying to add the three-ball to his game with more opportunities and reps.

    GM: Were you surprised Hukporti left the Knicks in free agency? Or did you think there was a chance he would stay given Robinson’s departure?

    JE: I was surprised because I didn’t think other teams would have interest, let alone give him more than the minimum. He didn’t play many significant minutes for New York. He’s going into his third NBA season, but he’s 24. He’s had a couple knee injuries over the last few seasons. I wouldn’t have been surprised if the Knicks wanted to keep him around as the third center, but, yeah, I was surprised he got the deal he did from another team.

    GM: Simply put, is Hukporti ready to be a backup center — and a spot starter when Joel Embiid is injured or resting? He will be competing with Adem Bona for that job.

    JE: To be honest, I don’t think so, not for where the Sixers want to go. If a rebuilding team or a team without championship aspirations this season wanted to see him in that role, that would make more sense.

    Ariel Hukporti (55) will compete for the backup center spot behind Joel Embiid. John McDonnell / AP

    Philadelphia giving him 10-plus minutes a night … I just haven’t seen enough from him to believe that he can immediately be a reliable backup option every single night. I’m not saying that he can’t do it, but I haven’t really seen anything to suggest that he can right now. I’m rooting for him because he’s a good guy and works hard. I hope I’m wrong.

    GM: Despite the sparse playing time, what do you think Hukporti most gained/learned (on or off the floor) from being immersed in the Knicks’ championship run?

    JE: He got to be around great players and [learned] what makes them tick, how they work. He learned about standards. Hukporti played for two disciplined coaches in Tom Thibodeau and Mike Brown, both of whom had high standards.

    I also think it helps that all Hukporti knows at the NBA level is winning, which can’t be said for many Knicks draft picks between the late 1970s and today. At the very least, he’s been around a positive program and understands the inner workings of winning.

    GM: How would you describe Hukporti as a teammate and locker-room presence?

    JE: Great guy. His teammates — both veterans and youngsters — loved him, and so did his coaches. He’s not afraid to show his personality, and that was in New York where the franchise pushes players not to show their personalities. Funny guy, too. I never had a bad interaction with Hukporti and I don’t know anyone who did.

  • Letters to the Editor | Aug. 24, 2026

    Letters to the Editor | Aug. 24, 2026

    Real fear

    Wondering if a situation I not long ago experienced in a Walmart would change Luis F. Carrasco’s mind about both sides having extreme ways we disagree. I saw a gentleman wearing the famous red MAGA hat. I said he looked like he supported Donald Trump. He looked at me and said, “You want to make something of it,” while pulling up his shirt — to show off the gun he was carrying. The fear Mr. Carrasco is talking about isn’t just a concern about being yelled at. It’s the same fear felt by liberals like me, judges, people in Congress, and others when we hear our president tell his supporters that violence is not just OK, but recommended.

    Joe Obelcz, Hatfield

    Preventive healthcare

    Earlier this summer, a Spotlight PA article detailed how advocates and lawmakers were trying to figure out how to keep the state’s children insured as the Trump administration’s Medicaid cuts loom. As children prepare to head back to school, I remain struck by how that article highlights an important reality: The most valuable healthcare is often the illness that never occurs because it was prevented.

    A pediatric well-child visit is far more than a physical exam. It is where developmental delays, postpartum depression, food insecurity, mental health concerns, and life-threatening illnesses may first be recognized. It is also where trusting relationships are built, relationships that help families feel comfortable discussing concerns, accepting recommended vaccinations, and seeking care before small problems become crises.

    Difficult budget decisions are inevitable, but how we make them matters. Protecting children’s access to pediatric primary care through Medicaid and Children’s Health Insurance Program is an investment in healthier families, lower healthcare costs, and stronger communities. Every child deserves the opportunity to grow up healthy, and that starts with ensuring they can see their pediatrician.

    Eliza Sitter, Philadelphia

    Unsung hero

    It’s recently been reported that the U.S. Navy is thinking about removing Doris Miller’s name from its newest aircraft carrier. Miller was a cook aboard the USS West Virginia during Japan’s attack on Pearl Harbor on Dec. 7, 1941. He also happened to be Black. On that day, Miller, in the face of enemy bombing, displayed extreme heroism by saving the life of the ship’s injured captain and manning an anti-aircraft gun that brought down at least one Japanese plane, if not more. He was later awarded the Navy Cross, the first Black American to receive it. Two years later, he made the ultimate sacrifice for his country when his carrier was torpedoed by a Japanese submarine and he went down with it.

    The “shocking” part of this story is that the U.S. Navy is seriously considering replacing Miller’s name with that of … wait for it … Donald J. Trump. And what heroism did Trump exhibit to warrant such an honor? Sure, he avoided military service during the Vietnam War because of “bone spurs.” But who knows, if not for such “bone spurs,” Trump may very well have saved more than one captain and brought down thousands of enemy planes, ending that war like he claims to have ended so many other wars during his second term in office. That counts for a lot among his cabinet members. And he certainly has been courageous, playing golf despite his “bone spurs” (by one tally, he’s spent about 22% of his second term golfing).

    Of course, none of this is shocking. Trump cares only about three things, and not one of them involves bettering the lives of the average American: enriching himself and his family at every opportunity, seeking retribution against his perceived enemies, and slapping his name on anything and everything he can. None of that would be possible if not for the compliance of this Congress and this Supreme Court. It’s time to put a stop to this nonsense and elect officials who are serious about the real issues facing our country — and who have solutions that put the American people first.

    Jeffrey Meyer, Chicago, Ill.

    …

    The possible renaming of the USS Doris Miller as the USS Donald J. Trump reflects the reality of the president’s second term. During his first term, Trump made an attempt to connect with African American voters despite his own pre-presidential comments and actions. In his second term, Confederate names on Army forts are in, woke is out — as are assistance to college students of color, Project Head Start, and other government programs aimed at giving marginalized people an opportunity to advance in our society. The disrespect shown to America’s first Black hero of World War II follows in the wake of Pete Hegseth’s purging our military of qualified Black and female generals and admirals. Trump 45 was challenging to endure, Trump 47 is moving our country closer to self-centered one-person rule.

    Paul L. Newman, Merion Station

    Blame game 2.0

    In the coming years, we may witness the return of one of America’s oldest and most reliable excuses — only updated for the digital age. For generations, students fell back on the classic line, “My dog ate my homework,” a phrase that became shorthand for avoiding responsibility with a smile. Today, we’re on the verge of adopting its modern successor: “The AI messed it up.”

    Already, artificial intelligence is being quietly positioned as a cultural scapegoat. A poorly worded email? Blame the AI assistant. An awkward social media post? Must have been the algorithm. A missed deadline? The chatbot must have misunderstood. The technology is new, but the impulse is ancient: when something goes wrong, point to anything except ourselves.

    The irony is that AI doesn’t remove human responsibility — it increases it. These tools are powerful, but they are not autonomous moral agents. They don’t decide our tone, our judgment, or our priorities. Yet we seem eager to hand them not only our tasks, but our accountability.

    If we’re not careful, “The AI did it” will become the next cultural reflex, allowing us to sidestep ownership of our words and actions. It may not be long before society looks back and realizes that the dog never ate the homework — and the AI didn’t write the email. We did.

    Steve Abramovitz, Cherry Hill

    Toeing the line

    Your recent editorial on how American troops are being strained for nothing during the Iran war, referred to Trump ducking service during the Vietnam War “with the reported assistance of a sympathetic Queens podiatrist.” The doctor in question had good reason to be sympathetic: his landlord was Fred Trump, Donald’s father.

    As The New York Times reported in 2018, the podiatrist, Dr. Larry Braunstein, died in 2007. But his daughters say their father often told the story of coming to the aid of a young Mr. Trump during the Vietnam War as a favor to his father. They said his role in Mr. Trump’s military exemption had long been the subject of discussions among relatives and friends. “It was family lore,” Elysa Braunstein told The Times. “It was something we would always discuss.”

    In keeping with his lifelong passion for telling the truth, Trump later claimed that it was a high draft lottery number that kept him from being called up — but he got the bone spurs deferment in 1968: the lottery wasn’t instituted until a year later.

    Isaac Segal, Cherry Hill

    Muscular politics

    Secretary of Defense Pete Hegseth says that his mandatory screening program for testosterone deficiency for the troops is “necessary to allow them to operate at their absolute best.” This is an inaccurate, inappropriate and irresponsible action from incompetent Trump cabinet officials, including the Health and Human Services Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr. As a practicing physician, I was alarmed by Hegseth’s plan, which goes against current guidelines issued by the Endocrine Society, American Urological Association, American College of Physicians and the Food and Drug Administration, all uniformly recommending against population-level screening, and advocating only for symptom-driven case detection at any age, in association with other medical illnesses including type 2 diabetes, chronic kidney disease, obesity, and chronic opioid and corticosteroid use. Testosterone replacement therapy, even if clinically warranted, has well documented serious side effects including fractures, pulmonary embolism (lung blood clots), and a potential increase for atrial fibrillation, a heart rhythm abnormality that is associated with blood clots including stroke. Unfortunately, our military continues to be led astray by an unqualified, self-serving weekend television host whose ego and ill-advised decision-making place our troops at increased risk of long-term health problems.

    Jay Klazmer, Cherry Hill

    Join the conversation: Send letters to letters@inquirer.com. Limit length to 150 words and include home address and day and evening phone number. Letters run in The Inquirer six days a week on the editorial pages and online.

  • Horoscopes: Monday, Aug. 24, 2026

    ARIES (March 21-April 19). Today features the intelligence of the body that shows itself through movement. Movement is the language of the wild. It’s what the creatures understand and respond to. Through movement, we learn what kind of creature we are.

    TAURUS (April 20-May 20). You don’t like to be told what to do, and that comes up in interesting ways. For instance, the hardest part of a meditative practice can be letting someone else dictate your breathing, even if that person is you.

    GEMINI (May 21-June 21). On an average day, your eyes land on thousands of things without really seeing them. But today, an ordinary object seems to call you to study it as though it washed ashore from another planet. Your takeaway says more about you than the object.

    CANCER (June 22-July 22). You can learn from watching what makes a person lose track of time. Turn the study on yourself. Your attention already knows where it wants to live, and you’ll feel most content and congruent when you let it go there.

    LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). Laughter will interrupt your thinking. Maybe this is why you cherish your funniest friend. For a few seconds, there is simply the laugh itself. It gives the mind a brief, unexpected holiday, all-inclusive and totally free.

    VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). Conversations are a real education today. People become far more interesting because you don’t see them as your audience. Instead of waiting for your turn to talk, you see your connection as a chance to collect clues.

    LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). If it feels like you need to prepare for a conversation, challenge yourself to go in cold. Today, this will force you to be in the moment, seeing and understanding more about this scene than you would if you already knew what you were going to say.

    SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). Today, your attention behaves like a flashlight instead of a floodlight. Rather than chasing every corner of the room, you point it at one thing and let your mind wander only within the limits of this focused illumination. There is a whole universe right here.

    SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). Music asks something unusual of the body. Even people who refuse to dance may not be able to resist tapping a finger or nodding their head. Rhythm reaches parts of us that language only visits from time to time.

    CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). You have spent your whole life inside your own voice. Imagine hearing it for the first time today. Would it sound encouraging? Funny? Curious? Familiarity has hidden things that you will now experience more fully.

    AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). Not only does self-consciousness feel uncool, it can actually feel painful to you. But you can avoid the whole dynamic by bringing your attention to the other person as though you’ll be tested on this later. You just might be!

    PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). Somewhere along the way, many adults begin asking what a thing is worth before deciding whether it’s worth noticing. Not you. Today, you’re like a child picking up an interesting rock. You’ll turn it over, hold it to the light and put it in a pocket for later.

    TODAY’S BIRTHDAY (Aug. 24). Welcome to your Year of Profound Comforts in which a cozy vibe touches down on every part of your life, without you even having to ask for or earn it. It’s as though the universe just wants to pamper you. More highlights: You’ll have the help and means to choose the work you want instead of settling for what you’re given. The version of love you want comes easily. Your talent is featured. Aquarius and Taurus adore you. Your lucky numbers are: 6, 27, 24, 1 and 15.

  • Dear Abby | Dad asks a lot of low-income live-at-home son

    DEAR ABBY: My middle-aged son is on the autism spectrum and has recently come back home to live with us. He left home at 19 and has always had roommates. We didn’t realize that he had autism until about a year ago.

    We like having him here but are having a difficult time adjusting. My son has agreed to help with bills and contribute toward groceries, but my husband thinks we should split all expenses three ways equally. My son works in the food service industry and earns a low wage, even though he puts in 32 to 34 hours a week. He eats at work most of the time and at home only twice a week. I’m retired and live on a small Social Security check. My husband makes more than twice what my son and I make. I think we should contribute based on our income, and I feel that my son and I should contribute 20% each toward food and other bills. Every time I try to discuss this with my husband, he gets angry and accuses me of taking advantage of him. I’m hoping we can get this resolved and move on.

    — DESPERATE MOM

    DEAR MOM: I assume you want your son to stay with you for the long term; does your husband feel the same? Is it possible he’s being difficult about money so your son will move out again? The phrase “on the autism spectrum” covers a wide range of needs, so I’m not in a position to weigh in on what you should expect of your son. A licensed family counselor who specializes in autism may be able to help you and your husband understand how much your son is capable of contributing.

    ** ** **

    DEAR ABBY: My fiancé, “Dustin,” and I have been a couple for five years. We live together and are fairly happy. The problem is his gaming habits. At first, it wasn’t an issue because I also play the occasional video game. Since moving into our own place, I’ve noticed Dustin has started spending a tremendous amount of time on these video games. From the time he wakes up around 1 p.m. until right after he gets off work around 10 p.m., he’ll log on and play for hours. Most nights he doesn’t come to bed until 5 a.m.!

    With all his free time, he doesn’t help clean or cook, and I get none of his attention. I’m not sure where I go from here. I have spoken to him about this habit, but he doesn’t see any issue because he grew up constantly playing games. I need some guidance on this issue because it’s driving a wedge in our relationship.

    — GAME OVER IN NORTH CAROLINA

    DEAR GAME OVER: Dustin doesn’t see any issue with the status quo because it isn’t a problem — for him. He’s got a pretty good deal. You do the cooking and the cleaning and contribute to half the expenses, but you’re not even getting companionship.

    Tell your fiancé you need more from him because this isn’t what you signed up for when you moved in together. Offer him the option of couples counseling so your issues can be mediated. If he isn’t willing and this doesn’t resolve the problem, then cut your losses and move out unless you want to spend the rest of your life as a “gaming widow.”