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  • How to have a perfect Philly day, according to State Senator Nikil Saval

    How to have a perfect Philly day, according to State Senator Nikil Saval

    State Sen. Nikil Saval’s favorite glimpse of Philadelphia comes at dawn, on the return leg of his run across the Ben Franklin Bridge. Lately, he’s been listening to Lizabeth Cohen’s 2019 book Saving America’s Cities along the way.

    “It feels like you’re experiencing the city at a moment of total possibility,” Saval, 43, said.

    Saval was a journalist before he was a politician, writing about architecture and design for the New York Times and the New Yorker and publishing Cubed: The Secret History of the Workplace, a book about the evolution of white-collar work.

    When he first ran for state Senate in 2020, the New York Times dubbed him the “N+1 candidate,” a reference to his time as co-editor of the Brooklyn-based literary magazine. (He remains on its board).

    Now, the Democratic Socialist represents the Pennsylvania Senate’s 1st District, stretching from the Philadelphia International Airport across South Philly up to Port Richmond. He is perhaps best known for sponsoring the state’s Whole-Home Repairs program, which funds homeowners to repair and adapt their homes and served as a model for a federal pilot program that became law last month.

    He lives in the Italian Market with his wife and two young children. On his perfect Philly day, he buys fresh tortillas, strolls down Fabric Row, and plays a game at the Philadelphia Museum of Art inspired by the Surrealists.

    State Sen. Nikil Saval lives in the Italian Market with his wife and two young children. Erin Blewett / For The Inquirer

    5:30 a.m.

    I’m up slightly before my children. It’s a magic hour and I try to go for a run. My favorite route at that hour is to go up Fifth Street to the Ben Franklin Bridge, and then over the bridge to Camden and back. You get the best view of the city on the way back.

    7 a.m.

    My kids are up. We’ll make coffee and put breakfast together at home. We’re usually supplementing that with another coffee at some point. I’m a partisan supporter of Shot Tower Coffee in Queen Village. I feel like everyone gathers there — there have been times when it’s so populated that we will defect to Gleaners Cafe in the Italian Market, which is warm and friendly.

    9 a.m.

    My son has been taking golf lessons through First Tee at the Walnut Lane Golf Club, which is a public course in East Falls. I’m not a golfer, I have no interest. But he’s gotten into it. First Tee is really diverse.

    It turns out to be this nice morning ritual. He’s chipping balls with a bunch of kids, we sit at the snack bar with our younger son while he colors. We read the newspaper, and he eats a pretzel, because that’s naturally what you have for breakfast.

    Nikil Saval buys tortilla chips and beans at Tortilleria San Roman in the Italian Market. Erin Blewett / For The Inquirer

    11 a.m.

    Then we’ll go to Headhouse Farmers Market. We’ll get the lonsa from Aaji’s, a local brand. It’s Indian tomato relish, and it’s amazing. I give those out as Christmas gifts to my colleagues in the Senate.

    We’ll get chips and pico de gallo from Tortilleria San Roman, tortillas from Casa Mexico. We’ll get other produce from Charlie’s and pasta from Claudio Specialty Foods.

    12 p.m.

    We travel by SEPTA to the Art Museum. They have an Art Kids program, where we drop off our younger son to do an art project.

    Then we’ll spend an hour and a half with my older son in the galleries. We’ve developed this game that came out of the Surrealism exhibit. We’ll do an “exquisite corpse,” where someone draws the top third of a drawing, and then someone does the middle third, but you don’t look. Then you unfold the paper at the end and see what you come up with.

    Each of us will choose a sculpture or a painting to draw as one section.

    Nikil Saval buying produce in the Italian Market. Erin Blewett / For The Inquirer

    2 p.m.

    Next we go to South Kensington. There’s a really good vegan Puerto Rican place there, Casa Borinqueña. We also love the falafel from the Al Amana Grocery store that’s attached to the Al Aqsa mosque. They’re the best in the city.

    3 p.m.

    We take a post-lunch stroll on Frankford Avenue. We visit the Philadelphia Record Exchange, and Lot 49 Books on Girard Avenue, which is awesome.

    Then we take the 57 down to Fourth Street, Fabric Row. It’s one of these great commercial corridors because it maintains everything that’s historic, but over time it has integrated new businesses that are of a piece, like Approved Textiles. They sell really amazing products, especially this brand of Palestinian soap that we buy there. Yowie has awesome designers for goods as well as clothes. Brickbat Books has great records and an extraordinary selection of books.

    Nikil Saval leaves Tortilleria San Roman in the Italian Market with his groceries. The state senator loves to cook. Erin Blewett / For The Inquirer

    6 p.m.

    We get a babysitter and order from Tamalex, a Mexican restaurant in our neighborhood. We have a go-to order of nachos that the kids like.

    6:30 p.m.

    We love Mish Mish. It’s a good place to go with friends and get lots of things. I’m vegan, and there’s always something exciting there.

    8 p.m.

    Then we go see performing arts, anything that’s unexpected. We’re members of the Film Society, so we’ll go to a “Surprise 35!″ showing. Once a month, they’ll show a movie on 35 mm film; you don’t know what it is until it starts. We’re in a good age of repertory film in the region — the Philm Club newsletter is a good resource.

    We go to shows at Solar Myth, where they have free jazz. We also have an Opera Philadelphia subscription. That’s always novel and shocking. They’re frequently new productions. You pay $11. The audiences are totally transformed.

    10 p.m.

    If we had the energy for a post-all-of-this drink, I would go to Southwark. It feels boisterous, but private in this way where you can have a conversation. The bartenders are incredibly welcoming.

    The conversation has been edited for clarity and brevity.

  • She borrowed $11,000 from her 401(k) to transform a ‘total dump’ in South Philly | How I Bought This House

    She borrowed $11,000 from her 401(k) to transform a ‘total dump’ in South Philly | How I Bought This House

    The buyer: Tessa Maropis, 29, property manager for her family’s realty business in Texas.

    The house: An 896-square-foot rowhouse in South Philly with three bedrooms and one bath built in 1923.

    The price: Listed for $280,000; purchased for the same.

    Maropis knew her mahogany and silk couch would fit perfectly in the living room. Monica Herndon / Staff Photographer

    The agent: Salvatore Emma, Exit Elevate Realty.

    The ask: Maropis moved to Philly from Austin, Texas, in 2022 for a job, bringing her then-boyfriend with her. They signed a 15-month lease in South Philly but broke up after five months. Then they kept living together.

    When the lease finally ended, Maropis wanted to start fresh. She hoped to find a rental with a bathtub and a private outdoor space that retained its original details. She didn’t want millennial gray or a sleek Ikea remodel.

    The bathroom at Maropis’ house. Monica Herndon / Staff Photographer

    She also knew she wanted to stay in the 19147 zip code. A frightening incident had left her committed to the area: Two weeks after arriving in the city, Maropis was drugged at a bar and left near her house, she said. A good Samaritan found her and drove her safely home, unharmed.

    “As much as something terrible happened,” she said, “it showed me how surprisingly gentle and kind the community here was.”

    Maropis said she “lucked into the best community” in South Philly. Monica Herndon / Staff Photographer

    The search: Maropis had bad luck on the rental market; the apartments she liked kept getting snapped up. As her search dragged on, she found what seemed like a perfect house, but the owners were offering only a short-term lease because they planned to sell soon. Not wanting to move immediately, Maropis looked into buying the house. She prequalified for a mortgage but didn’t have enough cash to make the monthly payments affordable.

    It dawned on her that buying could be a real option if she found a less expensive place.

    The appeal: The first house her agent showed her had attracted little interest. It was filthy; the stairs and second floor hallway were covered in poorly maintained blue shag carpeting from the 1960s, and there were holes punched in the smoke-stained walls.

    Maropis especially loved the original bamboo parquet floors in the living room. Monica Herndon / Staff Photographer

    “It was a total dump, so every person who looked at it hated it,” Maropis said. Yet right away she loved the wooden radiator covers, which looked like Victorian mantelpieces with brass grates, and the bamboo parquet floor in the living room. She could already picture a place for her mahogany and silk couch.

    She had grown up fixing houses, and she thought she could manage about 99% of the problems herself.

    “It had great bones and just needed somebody to love it a little bit,” she said. “The first time I toured it, I had a little tingle of the feeling that maybe I could actually live here.”

    The radiators have wooden covers with brass grates. Monica Herndon / Staff Photographer

    The deal: From the outset, Maropis knew she was in a good position to negotiate because the owners wanted to sell quickly. Her agent was in the same brokerage as the seller’s agent, so they were both incentivized to make it work.

    Maropis describes the stairs as the bane of her existence. Monica Herndon / Staff Photographer

    She also had leverage because of the state of the house. The inspection revealed lead pipes in the basement, a furnace that was leaking carbon monoxide, and a foundation partly chewed through by termites.

    The house had a reverse mortgage so the sellers did not want to budge on the purchase price. But Maropis negotiated a $15,000 seller’s assist, which went partly toward her closing costs and partly toward her down payment. She visited twice more before deciding to buy.

    Plants fill a corner shelf. Monica Herndon / Staff Photographer

    The money: Maropis’ decision to buy was clinched when she learned she could withdraw money from her 401(k) to put toward her down payment. For three years she had been working for the consulting company GLG, contributing 7% of her salary to her 401(k), with an equivalent company match.

    “I always considered my 401(k) Monopoly money because I don’t really think my generation will ever be able to retire,” she said. She ultimately withdrew $11,000 from her retirement account to buy the house.

    Maropis described her style as Victorian modern; she felt the house had an “old-school feel.” Monica Herndon / Staff Photographer

    She then used her end-of-year bonus to put down an additional $5,000, bringing her down payment to 6%. She secured a Federal Housing Administration (FHA) loan for the rest, with an interest rate of 6.2%. Because of the seller’s assist, she paid only $2,100 in closing costs.

    She wanted to keep her monthly costs under $2,000, but ended up paying $2,200 per month until she refinanced in winter 2024, bringing her monthly payments down to $1,800.

    The move: Maropis closed on the house at the end of March 2023, two days after her 26th birthday.

    She moved in two weeks later, with the help of Broad Street Movers and her dad, who had flown in from Texas.

    Maropis said her next project is a renovation of the tiles, countertops, and appliances in the kitchen. Monica Herndon / Staff Photographer

    Life after close: Maropis’ life as a homeowner began with hours of scrubbing. She hired a contractor to tear out the carpets and replace them with luxury vinyl plank, but he did a shoddy job, and the vinyl is already peeling.

    Three months after moving in, she was laid off, which scuttled some of her financial plans. She had aimed to pay back her 401(k) from her salary that same year but instead owed a small tax penalty.

    Still, she’s thrilled with her home and the community it brought her. Her now-husband moved in with her in 2024, and they share two cats, Daddy and Little Cat. Grumpy’s Tavern is nearby, and she says the dive bar regulars are like her neighbors.

    Her next big project will be renovating the kitchen, replacing the counters, tiles, and appliances.

    “The progress of this house,” she said, “is one of the things I absolutely love the most.”

    Did you recently buy a home in the Philadelphia area or South Jersey? Share the story of how you did it. Email Inquirer real estate reporters at properties@inquirer.com.

  • Dear Abby | Retired husband drives remote worker wife up a wall

    Dear Abby | Retired husband drives remote worker wife up a wall

    DEAR ABBY: I am at my wits’ end with “Barney,” my husband of 35 years. He retired two years ago, but I am still working and likely will for several more years. I’ve worked from home successfully since long before the COVID-19 pandemic, which was fine while Barney was working. When he retired, I talked to him about respecting boundaries during the day while I work. My home office is on the second floor of the house, which leaves him the entire downstairs to enjoy without disrupting me during work hours.

    Unfortunately, Barney has not shown me the respect I asked for. He frequently yells upstairs for me to come help him with something, or he comes into the office and wants to talk. He wants to know what’s for dinner, and he gets upset if I’m not done working at exactly 5 p.m. He also gets upset with me if I won’t let him caress and hold me while I’m trying to work. When he worked, he often stayed late and went in after hours or on weekends. I never complained or showed him the disrespect he is showing me.

    For a while, I tried to give Barney more attention because I do love him. Now, his constant complaining is so annoying that I don’t even want to spend my free time with him. I am certainly not interested in any physical expressions of love. I’ve tried to discuss this with him and even asked if he’d consider going to couples counseling, but he refuses.

    I’m a happy woman except when I’m with my husband. That makes me sad, and I’m tired of feeling this way. I’m not sure what to do. I’ve thought about renting office space, but that would only solve the disruption issues during my workday. It wouldn’t solve the other issues, notably Barney’s lack of respect for me.

    — GIVE ME SPACE

    DEAR GIVE ME SPACE: A partial solution is better than no solution. Go ahead and rent the office space. It will be helpful to learn how much of the pressure that relieves. Once your work frustrations are out of the picture, reassess Barney’s treatment of you and decide how much relationship adjustment is still needed. Even if he refuses counseling, go by yourself! If you do, you may learn some techniques for dealing with his troublesome behaviors.

    ** ** **

    DEAR ABBY: My 40-year-old niece has lived in my sister’s basement for five years now. She has had many ups and downs since running away at 15, but she was able to get a degree in engineering, fly helicopters, etc., so she is intelligent. I don’t know why she has withdrawn to such a degree.

    Should I ask my sister or brother-in-law how she is doing when I call? I feel it’s normal and natural that I ask, but the question always brings a painful silence followed by, “She’s figuring out her life.” She does not work or look for it, hides from the public, and behaves like a 16-year-old. Should I quit asking?

    — UNCLE IN THE DARK

    DEAR UNCLE: If you do not ask how your niece is doing, it will appear that you do not care. So, the next time you speak to your relatives and your question is met with an uncomfortable pause, consider asking whether they would rather you not ask.

  • Philly-area AMC Theatres will screen two Dolly Parton movies

    Philly-area AMC Theatres will screen two Dolly Parton movies

    In the days since her Aug. 25 death, the tributes to country music icon Dolly Parton have piled up: from music megastars, tech-industry titans — even the Buckingham Palace guards.

    Add AMC Theatres to the list.

    The company announced this week that it will be holding a retrospective of the artist’s film work, with screenings of a pair of Parton-starring films — Steel Magnolias and The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas — in her honor. Screenings begin Friday and run through Sept. 2, the company said.

    In all, roughly 200 AMC locations nationwide will hold screenings.

    Participating Philadelphia-area theaters include AMC Cherry Hill 24 and AMC Voorhees 16 in New Jersey, and AMC Neshaminy 24 in Bensalem. Tickets will be offered at discounted prices and are available through the AMC website.

    The two films are among several that Parton appeared in between 1980 and 2015, a list that also includes 9 to 5, in which she starred alongside Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin, and received three Golden Globe nominations.

    The 1982 musical comedy The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas saw Parton play a brothel madam alongside Burt Reynolds, earning her another Golden Globe nomination in the process.

    In 1989’s Steel Magnolias, Parton stars alongside Julia Roberts, Sally Field, Shirley MacLaine, and Daryl Hannah.

    A longtime star of the music, film, and television industries, Parton’s death has brought a wave of homages this week from everyone from Taylor Swift to Amazon founder Jeff Bezos. Her death followed a brief battle with cancer, a family spokesperson has said.

    Parton was a 10-time Grammy Award winner, and her 55 Grammy nominations make her the third-most nominated woman in the awards’ history, according to the Associated Press, trailing only Beyoncé and Swift.

    In addition to AMC, Regal Cinemas will be screening both films, as well — though screenings will be limited to Parton’s home state of Tennessee.

  • 🏁 Cycling Classic weekend is here | Outdoorsy Newsletter

    🏁 Cycling Classic weekend is here | Outdoorsy Newsletter

    August is nearly finished. Are you looking forward to the fall? I’d love to know what you like to do outside this season.

    In today’s edition:

    ☀️ Your weekend weather outlook: Splendid conditions. Light wind and little chance of rain.

    — Paola Pérez (outdoorsy@inquirer.com)

    If someone forwarded you this email, sign up for free here.

    On your marks

    It’s an all-day party. It’s considered one of the best summertime days in Philadelphia. And it’s finally back after a decade.

    The prestigious Cycling Class returns this weekend, attracting spectators and cycling enthusiasts from all over the city.

    ⏱️ The Classic kicks off Sunday and runs from 8:30 a.m. to around 4:45 p.m. The (free!) Fan Fest, located at the Iroquois Sculpture area by the Art Museum, will be open the entire weekend, from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday and 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. Sunday.

    🚃 Consider public transportation to get to your spectating spot, as no parking is available and road closures and restrictions will be in effect. Don’t know where to go to watch the action unfold? We have you covered with our picks of the best spots, and information on nearby SEPTA stations.

    🚴 You could also bike to your spot. Organizers recommend riding to the course via the Schuylkill River Trail. Free bike valet parking is available at the Fan Fest and Lemon Hill.

    Use our guide to get ready for race day by taking a lap of the 14-mile course from start to finish, and to find all other important details about the race.

    News worth knowing

    🌳 Your outdoorsy experience

    Last week, Barbara B. showed us a massive mushroom sprouting from a cherry tree trunk. She followed up with more details:

    “I am not a forager but just appreciate odd and mysterious appearances in nature. Though from what I read about it, this fungus is probably in the process of destroying the tree from the inside.”

    Yikes. I recently noticed a similar fungus, brick reddish brown in color, growing at the base of a tree in my neighborhood. I wondered if the same thing might be happening there …

    📥 How about you, dear reader? What are you doing or seeing out there? I want to hear from you. Send me an email with any recent or past stories in nature (and pictures, if you have them). You may see it featured right here.

    An enduring mystery

    🎤 My colleague Jason Nark reports on rural communities far from city life. I’m passing him the mic for his latest dispatch out of Cumberland County, New Jersey.

    Taxidermy and weathered photos line the walls at Higbee’s Bait and Tackle in Fortescue, artifacts from bygone days when the sleepy Delaware Bay town was truly the “weakfish capital of the world.”

    The taxidermy is a dusty, 12-pound “tide runner,” the nickname fishermen bestow on the biggest, trophy weakfish, a member of the drum family with a tan, often iridescent body and a reputation for fighting hard on a fishing line. The black-and-white photo shows a single fisherman standing beside his catch, about 30 weakfish of various sizes.

    Tide runners are unicorns today, a rarity on New Jersey coasts and across the bay, in Delaware. Catch limits enacted by state fisheries would prevent a single fisherman from catching dozens of fish today, though most would be happy with one legal keeper they could fry up in lemon and butter.

    Fishermen have plenty of theories about where all the weakfish have gone. They blame dolphins and dogfish for gobbling up the young; nuclear power plants; the rise of other popular game fish, like striped bass; and offshore seafood trawlers. — Jason Nark

    Keep reading on the peculiar decline of weakfish.

    Paola’s picks

    🌞 A song: “Summer Madness” by Kool and the Gang.

    💛 A sighting: A “superhero” Goldfinch that frequents Tom Pluck’s neighborhood.

    🎒 A cool human: Finn Fremstad, 18, biked roughly 2,000 miles from Colorado to Delco for his first day of school at Swarthmore.

    🦁 A moment of silence: May Makini the African lion rest in peace.

    🌃 An activity: Bring a picnic blanket and kick back at Philly’s Magic Gardens (Saturday, $30), and at Clark Park for the Ethiopian Day celebration (Sunday, free).

    A calming view

    Breathe in…and breathe out. I took this during a short hike on Monday.Paola Pérez

    Here’s the Wissahickon River, as seen from the Orange Trail portion of this loop that starts from Bells Mill Road East. (Turns out cast and crew of HBO’s Task were filming season two in the park that day, which explains why Bells Mill Road West was closed.)

    😊 Nature calls.

    Editor’s note: This has been updated to reflect

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  • Everything you need to know about the 2026 Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire

    Everything you need to know about the 2026 Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire

    Get your lances and chain mail ready — it’s time, once again, for the Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire.

    Spanning 35 acres of the Mount Hope Estate and Winery in Manheim, the faire draws around 200,000 guests annually and features dozens of costumed cast members, loads of era-specific food and drink, and enough drama to fill a scroll or two.

    The faire is open Saturdays and Sundays from through Oct. 25, with tickets on sale now.

    This year’s storyline centers on Queen Elizabeth, whose journey to Mount Hope has made waves in that it’s expected to conclude with a decision: Who will the queen take as a spouse?

    As the faire’s website teases, “candidates are put forward, choices are made, sides are taken, [and] conflicts, resolutions, and hijinks ensue.”

    Here’s everything you need to know before making the trek to Lancaster County:

    Dates & times for the 2026 Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire

    The faire is held Saturdays and Sundays through Oct. 25, rain or shine. Gates open at 11 a.m. and close at 8 p.m. — though merchants close at 7 p.m.

    • 📍 2775 Lebanon Road, Manheim, Pa. 17545
    • 🕒 Aug. 16–Oct. 26, Saturdays and Sundays, 11 a.m.–8 p.m.
    • 📞 717-665-7021
    • 🌐 parenfaire.com

    Schedules for the 2026 Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire

    “Daily Writs” — or individual weekend schedules — are available on the festival website.

    A series of special events — including a pub crawl, a “Bard’s Breakfast,” and a pair of escape rooms — are also scheduled, though additional tickets are required.

    Joe Penn portrays Sheriff Jacob Perry at a previous iteration of the annual Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire.Ron Fary

    Tickets to the 2026 Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire

    Tickets are available through the Renaissance Faire’s online ticket sale website, parenfaire.com. Prices vary by age and date.

    • Through Sept. 13: $38.95 for ages 12+; $21.95 for ages 5-11.
    • Sept. 19-Oct. 25: $42.95 for ages 12+; $23.95 for ages 5-11.
    • Children 4 and under are free.

    Discounted tickets are available for those in the military, law enforcement, fire and EMS, medical workers, government employees, and educators. Discounted “sunset tickets” — with admission after 4 p.m. — are also available.

    “Royal Hound” tickets, which admit dogs pending the approval of registration, are $8 per animal.

    Tickets can only be purchased through the event’s website.

    The Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire runs on Saturdays and Sundays from now until Oct. 25 in Lancaster County.

    Themed weekends at the Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire

    Each weekend features a different theme, a schedule is found here, with a activities ranging from costume contests to scavenger hunts to trick-or-treating.

  • Dear Abby | Metronome man bounces between two wives

    DEAR ABBY: Twenty-six years ago, I began what was supposed to be an affair with my current girlfriend, “Lacey.” I was married at the time, and when my then-wife caught me, I was told we needed only to figure out who got what out of the marriage. Believing there was no salvaging the marriage, I took what was available and stayed with Lacey.

    My ex-wife moved on, and we divorced. Lacey got pregnant. After the birth of our daughter, and having become “Dad” to Lacey’s other two children, I stayed. The biological father of Lacey’s young children was deceased, so I raised them as my own, the same as my biological child.

    Now, after years of regret about screwing up my marriage, I mustered the courage to contact my ex-wife via social media. We connected via a messenger app for a few days. After those conversations went extremely well, we eventually exchanged numbers.

    There were lots of truths told, some good, some bad, but all in complete honesty. The conversations have been emotional and uplifting. I feel happy thinking about her and hope someday to see her again in person.

    I have been unhappy with Lacey since the beginning, always regretting the screwup I made in losing my first wife. Now, speaking to her again, I feel motivated to leave Lacey. There seems to be an honest connection with my ex, and we both hint at rekindling the relationship. How do I broach this subject civilly with Lacey without ruining my relationships with all of my kids?

    — SORRY IN PENNSYLVANIA

    DEAR SORRY: Do not expect a civil conversation. Expect instead that Lacey will be angry, threatened and furious. It may cushion the blow to mention that you haven’t been happy for years, and that you will see that she is provided for financially in some way. (Discuss this with a lawyer beforehand.)

    Explain to your grown children that you have not been happy for many years, but because you love them, you stayed with their mom until they were all adults so their lives would not be disrupted. If you do this gently and reasonably, they may listen.

    A word to the wise: There is no guarantee that returning to your ex-wife will bring you the happiness you are expecting. Premarital counseling and a long courtship are essential to ensure you aren’t jumping from the fire back into the frying pan.

    ** ** **

    DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend, “Ted,” is divorced from a woman who now has Alzheimer’s. Ted has been the only one to step up to help her through this difficult time. It takes a lot of his time and effort and weighs heavily on his mind.

    I admire Ted for his loyalty to someone he once shared a life with, but now she wants him to go on a cruise with her and a couple of his relatives. Ted says she doesn’t get to travel much now, and he sees nothing wrong with this because she’s paying his way. I am not invited. I feel this goes above and beyond his involvement with her health management. When is enough enough?

    — SECOND FIDDLE

    DEAR SECOND FIDDLE: Ted’s kindness is admirable, but his willingness to set you aside and vacation with his ex-wife crosses a line. Tell him either you accompany him on the cruise, or he shouldn’t bother coming back from it.

  • A strip club scene was cut from ‘National Treasure’ and other insights from Philly’s celebration of the film

    A strip club scene was cut from ‘National Treasure’ and other insights from Philly’s celebration of the film

    I’ve watched National Treasure more times than I can count and if I could count how many times I’ve seen it, I wouldn’t admit it to you.

    It’s a confluence of things that keep me coming back — the scenes filmed in Philly, Nic Cage taking an absurd plot line very seriously, and the fact that this movie always seems to be on TV. Plus, there’s a quick cameo of my favorite stand in Reading Terminal Market, which closed in 2016, that always makes me nostalgic (RIP Salumeria).

    On Friday, I got to geek out with other fans of the film and its sequel, National Treasure: Book of Secrets, during a ticketed talk with the director of the franchise, Jon Turteltaub, at the Independence Visitor Center. Turteltaub’s other films include Cool Runnings, While You Were Sleeping, and The Meg, which tracks.

    In the audience were a self-proclaimed “real-life treasure hunter,” several Freemasons, and Philly tour guide Stephen Pierce of Havertown. Pierce came dressed in his finest colonial garb and told me the movie, which came out when he was 9, was “definitely a huge inspiration for me growing up.”

    Stephen Pierce, a local tour guide with America’s Rising Son Tours, asks a question while wearing colonial-era clothing during a live recording of the “National Treasure Hunt” podcast at the Independence Visitor Center in Philadelphia on Friday, Aug. 21, 2026.Erin Blewett / For The Inquirer

    But there were no bigger fans in attendance than the cohosts and moderators for the evening, Aubrey Paris and Emily Black, creators of the National Treasure Hunt podcast, who helped curate Philly’s first National Treasure Weekend of events in conjunction with the Philadelphia Visitor Center.

    Aubrey Paris (left) and Emily Black (center), creators and hosts of the “National Treasure Hunt” podcast, speak with “National Treasure” director Jon Turteltaub during a live recording at the Independence Visitor Center in Philadelphia on Friday, Aug. 21, 2026.Erin Blewett / For The Inquirer

    Their palpable joy while interviewing Turteltaub for their podcast was only exceeded by the shock and excitement that washed over their faces when the director gave them the scoop that National Treasure 3 is “finally real.”

    That wasn’t the only gem Turteltaub dropped during their talk, though. Here are five other nuggets and behind-the-scenes stories the director shared about one of the best and most ridiculous films ever partially filmed in Philly.

    All up in Independence Hall

    Turteltaub said he was surprised that the National Park Service let the cast and crew climb up Independence Hall’s bell tower to film.

    “That was special. Being next to the Centennial Bell — amazing. More interesting was being behind the clock, coming up those stairs and seeing how that works was like ‘Wow, this is why I want to be in the movie business,’” he said. “It’s not art. You just get treated better than other people.”

    Visitors stand in a long line on Oct. 12, 2025, in front of Independence Hall waiting to view the nearby Liberty Bell.Tom Gralish / Staff Photographer

    But the NPS didn’t allow filming at the doors or inside the building because it would have impeded visitors’ experience, Turteltaub said. And it was at this point in the conversation I learned there’s a replica of Independence Hall at Knott’s Berry Farm in Buena Park, Calif., which is where the interior scenes of the film were shot.

    So I either need to make a movie or go to California to live out my dream of climbing the bell tower. Duly noted.

    A meaty role

    During the chase scene that winds through Reading Terminal Market, Abigail (played by Diane Kruger) ducks into a butcher stand while clutching the Declaration of Independence. The woman running the counter initially says in the most unenthusiastic, Philly way possible: “If you’re not a steak, you don’t belong here.”

    But when Abigail tells the woman she’s running from her “ex-husband” (who’s actually a bad guy), the woman says: “Honey, stay as long as you like.”

    Pedestrians fill the sidewalk outside Reading Terminal Market in Center City on June 3, 2025.Alejandro A. Alvarez / Staff Photographer

    Paris said that the butcher has become “a favorite non-named character.” Some have even called her “the real national treasure.”

    “It’s a huge cult thing,” Paris said.

    Mark another win for Philly’s notoriously kind-but-not-nice attitude.

    Stripped down

    Turteltaub revealed that the first version of the original film was four hours long, so many scenes had to be left on the cutting room floor, including the original ending.

    “The original ending scene, they were back at the National Archives looking at the Declaration back where it belonged. We thought the world needed to know that,” Turteltaub said. “Everyone’s feeling good and then they get started talking about a different treasure and they go off like, ‘Oh no, I’m not doing that!’ It’s like the end of a Gilligan’s Island episode.”

    Jon Turteltaub, director of the 2004 film “National Treasure,” speaks during a live recording of the “National Treasure Hunt” podcast at the Independence Visitor Center in Philadelphia on Friday, Aug. 21, 2026.Erin Blewett / For The Inquirer

    Another scene that was stripped from the film took place when Abigail and Riley (played by Justin Bartha) are chased through Center City.

    “As Riley’s being chased, he cuts into a strip club and he runs through the strip club to get away,” Turteltaub said. “So my idea was he runs in and no one’s in there and it’s just some guy vacuuming and [Riley] says, ‘Well, that was disappointing,’ and keeps going.”

    I’m disappointed the cleanest scene ever filmed in a strip club didn’t make the cut.

    High school reunion

    Turteltaub and Cage attended Beverly Hills High School together and the director said the two were friends.

    “He’s kind of a great, nonconforming, march-to-his-own drum guy, which in high school is not easy,” Turteltaub said. “I was desperate to fit in and be liked by every single person ever. He didn’t care.”

    Nicolas Cage runs through the Old Pine Street Presbyterian Church cemetery in a scene from “National Treasure.”Alamy Stock Photo

    The director said he sold the actor on taking the part of Benjamin Franklin Gates in National Treasure when he described the character to Cage with one word: audacity.

    “Nic is audacious and that was that connection. Nic never has a superficial connection to a character. He goes and finds the person,” Turteltaub said. “Sometimes that’s insane stuff and craziness and awesomeness and unpredictability and sometimes it just makes somebody very, very real.”

    Page turner

    During audience questions at the end of the talk, a child of no more than 6 asked Turteltaub: “What’s on page 47?” to thunderous applause from the crowd.

    The question referred to the end of the sequel film, when the President of the United States asks Gates what he thinks of what’s on page 47 of the book of secrets handed down from president to president. Gates calls what’s contained on the page “life-altering,” but its contents are never revealed to the audience.

    It may not be a secret for much longer, though.

    “The worst thing, to make it interesting, was we added the line at the last second — ‘life-changing, life-altering’ so now we have to come up with something that’s ‘life-altering,’” Turteltaub said. “If I said ‘I don’t know,’ everyone will hate me. If I said ‘I do know,’ you’ll hate me for not telling you, but I don’t think we can make the third movie without at least helping people out.”

    Aubrey Paris (left) and Emily Black (center), creators and hosts of the “National Treasure Hunt” podcast, speak with “National Treasure” director Jon Turteltaub during a live recording at the Independence Visitor Center in Philadelphia on Friday, Aug. 21, 2026. The event was part of Philadelphia’s first National Treasure Weekend.Erin Blewett / For The Inquirer
  • New trail connector lets bikers ride 70 miles from Philly to Reading. It’s ‘a really, really big deal.’

    New trail connector lets bikers ride 70 miles from Philly to Reading. It’s ‘a really, really big deal.’

    Cyclists Alvin Morris and Rick Young departed Philadelphia via Shawmont Avenue on the Schuylkill River Trail on Tuesday morning for a heart-pumping, 75-mile round trip ride.

    On previous trips, they, like thousands of other riders, had to stop at a gate where the trail abruptly ended near Pottstown and decide whether to risk traveling a busy alternate route.

    No more.

    Schuylkill River Trail organizers are celebrating the completion of a nearly one-mile connector in Montgomery County that gives cyclists a clear 70-mile path from Philly to Reading. The connector took about 10 years from planning to its Aug. 19 opening.

    “I just found out about the connector Sunday,” Young said. “I love it. I told Al about it. We’re preparing for the [city-to-Shore] MS ride, so we need to get in some distance.”

    The duo planned to continue on the Schuylkill River Trail for a few more miles past the connector before returning to Philly.

    A Montgomery County Planning Commission map of the new Schuylkill River Trail connection between Industrial Highway and the Route 422 bridge near Pottstown. The 0.9-mile section of paved asphalt trail is now open, providing an unbroken path from South Philadelphia to Reading.Frank Kummer

    ‘A really, really big deal’

    Elaine Paul Schaefer, executive director of the nonprofit Schuylkill River Greenways, says the connector is more than just a new trail segment.

    “It’s a really, really big deal,” Schaefer said. “On many, many levels.”

    Schaefer and others believe the unbroken 70-mile stretch could be a tipping point for cycling tourism because it is long enough for cyclists to plan trips that allow them to linger in towns for brews and food, or overnight stays, she said.

    “At that point, the economic impact to towns along the way really exponentially increases,” she said.

    Her group manages the Schuylkill River Greenways National Heritage Area, connecting people to the river and trail. Schuylkill River Greenways has its office in Pottstown, but manages 40 miles of the trail in Berks and Schuylkill Counties, raising money to help maintain it.

    The new connector allows riders pedaling south from Chester County to ride parallel to Route 422 in Pottsgrove Township, Montgomery County, then loop under the busy highway and continue into Pottstown Borough.

    “The trail now connects the population centers of Philadelphia to Montgomery County and Reading,” Schaefer said. “Soon, it will connect beyond that.”

    Elaine Paul Schaefer, executive director of the nonprofit Schuylkill River Greenways, speaks with Sue Shellman, foreground, and her husband, Bill Shellman, in yellow, both of Skippack, at the new connector.Frank Kummer

    A boost for Pottstown?

    Schaefer believes the new connector will lure cyclists willing to stop and spend money in Pottstown, a former steel town whose sizable downtown contains restaurants, inns, and breweries. Pottstown’s Riverfront Park along the trail is already widely used.

    Peggy Lee-Clark, executive director of the nonprofit Pottstown Area Economic Development Inc., said it is too early to judge the impact of the connector, but there is “excitement.”

    “I think that always any connection for the trail is an economic boost,” she said.

    Commuting workers also use the trail, Lee-Clark noted.

    “The river is an important asset to us, as is the trail,” Lee-Clark said. “The connector is just one more thing that brings people to the area and exposes them to all of the other opportunities here in Pottstown.”

    When complete, the Schuylkill River Trail will run about 120 miles from Fort Mifflin near Philadelphia International Airport to Frackville, Schuylkill County. About 80 miles of paved and crushed stone trail are currently open. A swing bridge connecting Grays Ferry to Bartram’s Garden is nearing completion.

    Jason Brudereck, of the nonprofit Schuylkill River Greenways, rides new the Schuylkill River Trail connector as it crosses from Chester County into Montgomery County.Frank Kummer

    How the connector got built

    Montgomery County is planning a formal ribbon-cutting on Sept. 29 for the connector, which is already popular. On Tuesday, dozens of cyclists were riding at midday.

    Scott France, executive director of the Montgomery County Planning Commission, said the county started trying to acquire rights-of-way to the land a decade ago.

    “We are super excited this is open,” France said. “It’s been a long time in the works. This has had its share of challenges, but the fact is that we got there.”

    The connector cost $1.28 million, France said. Most of it was paid for from a $550,000 grant from the Pennsylvania Department of Conservation and Natural Resources, and a $542,000 grant from the William Penn Foundation. The county funded the balance.

    Although the connector is less than a mile, it was a challenge, France said.

    This is the sign cyclists and pedestrians once had to stop at before the connector was finished.Frank Kummer

    The county had to build around a state-owned bridge, work with Peco and Verizon to move utilities, and obtain permits to build in a flood zone. Additionally, crews had to stop work during the breeding season of the northern red-bellied turtle, a threatened species common in the area.

    Bill Hartman, trails and open space planning manager for the commission, said the connector serves another key role.

    “It provides full access to a number of other trails,” Hartman said, including the Cross County and Perkiomen Trails.

    Further, Montgomery County Commissioner Neil Makhija noted that the connector and Schuylkill River Trail are also part of the much wider Circuit Trails network, a planned 850 miles of interconnected trails in the Philadelphia region, including South Jersey.

    Makhija said he plans to celebrate his 40th birthday on Sept. 13 by riding the inaugural Tour de Montco, a 40-mile ride from Pottstown to Bala Cynwyd.

    The new trail segment, Makhija said is, “not just a trail in the woods — it’s a connection, bringing us closer to Philly and Reading and connecting the two.”

    Sue Shellman, foreground, and her husband, Bill Shellman, in yellow, both of Skippack, ride from Chester County onto the new Schuylkill River Trail connector into Montgomery County.Frank Kummer
  • Dear Abby | Visiting niece starts smear campaign against her Dad

    DEAR ABBY: I got permission from my estranged brother to invite his 17-year-old daughter, “Ella,” to spend a month with my family this summer. We live on the East Coast, and she lives on the West Coast.

    Ella is about to graduate from high school and has had a difficult home life and relationship with her dad and stepmother. After making her travel arrangements, I came across recent social media posts that my niece wrote disparaging her father. I’m in no position to discipline or judge her, but I felt that I had to say something so she knows that I don’t condone what she has done.

    I’m now second-guessing whether it’s a good idea to have Ella around my 13- and 9-year-old children this summer. I told her the following: “I hadn’t seen your post about your father and stepmother. As a loving adult, I want you to know I think it’s very inappropriate. These kinds of postings tend to reflect more about the person posting than the people the post is about. For your own good, you should know that you, too, may be judged for what you have done — if not now, possibly in the future when you least want or expect it.”

    Ella didn’t respond to me and continues to write more disrespectful posts. Should I say anything more? I don’t think my brother knows about the posts, though my niece complained online about his having “hacked” her accounts.

    — HAVING SECOND THOUGHTS

    DEAR SECOND THOUGHTS: I wish you had mentioned the reason for your estrangement from your brother. Contact him and ask if he is aware of the comments Ella has posted and continues to post. If he is unaware, you should alert him. The choice of whether to cancel your niece’s visit is up to you, but from where I sit, she appears to be an unhappy girl who could use a break from Dad.

    ** ** **

    DEAR ABBY: I am a 63-year-old woman who retired about eight years ago. I have decided to go back into the workforce — nothing huge, just a job to enable me to keep up with rising costs and to set some money aside. My problem is that everyone wants you to apply online.

    I go online to look for work, I find something of interest, I click on it, and it takes me to a sign-in page for some sort of job site (such as Monster or Indeed). I fill out my information, and then I get a whole list of jobs, none of which are the one I originally clicked on. I have never had this much trouble finding a job. Any advice would be welcome. I am running out of options.

    — WILLING TO WORK

    DEAR WILLING TO WORK: Applying through those online job sites can feel like talking to a wall. Since you aren’t looking for anything fancy, the old-fashioned approach may work better. Check the bulletin boards of community centers, senior centers, local colleges, libraries and similar establishments. When you are out and about, keep your eyes peeled for “help wanted” notices. If you find yourself near a place you’d like to work, it can’t hurt to stop in and ask if they need help. Also, don’t forget the classified ads in your local newspaper!